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Recommended Reading for LGBTJews in the Federal City

by the Education Department
May 7, 2025

For those interested in learning more about the LGBTQ+ and Jewish LGBTQ+ experiences, we offer the following list of books for children and families, young adults, adults, and parents.

★  Indicates a title written by a DC author and/or exploring DC stories.

 

BOOKS FOR CHILDREN AND FAMILIES 

  • Havdalah Sky by Chris Barash
    Tags: Fiction, Shabbat, Same-Sex relationships, Diverse Jewish families 
  • Love Makes a Family by Sophie Beer
    Tags: Diverse families, Same-sex relationships, Young Readers 
  • She Persisted: Rachel Levine by Lisa Bunker and Chelsea Clinton
    Tags: Nonfiction, Transgender, Feminism, History 
  • The Flower Girl Wore Celery by Meryl G. Gordon
    Tags: Fiction, Same-sex weddings, Jewish weddings, Diverse Jewish Families 
  • I Am Jazz by Jessica Herthel
    Tags: Fiction, Transgender, Coming Out, Educational 
  • The Purim Superhero by Elizabeth Kushner
    Tags: Fiction, Purim, Same-sex parenting, Peer pressure 
  • When Aidan Became a Brother by Kyle Lukoff
    Tags: Fiction, Transgender, Coming out, Family 
  • The Heart of the Storm: A Biography of Sue Bird by Sharon Mentyka
    Tags: Nonfiction, Biography, Gay figure  
  • Love Remains: A Rosh Hashanah Story of Transformation by Rabbi Ari Moffic and Jessica Leving
    Tags: Fiction, Transgender children, Transition, Rosh Hashanah, Family  
  • The Boy Who Cried Fabulous by Lesléa Newman
    Tags: Fiction, Self-expression, Identity, Diversity 
  • Heather Has Two Mommies by Lesléa Newman
    Tags: Fiction, Same-sex relationships, Diverse families 
  • Joyful Song: A Naming Story by Lesléa Newman
    Tags: Fiction, diverse Jewish families, Jewish traditions, same-sex parents 
  • In Our Mothers’ House by Patricia Pollaco
    Tags: Fiction, Same-sex relationships, Diverse families 
  • Pride: The Story of Harvey Milk and the Rainbow Flag by Rob Sanders
    Tags: Biography, Activism, History, Rainbow flag, Death 
  • The Last Place You Look by J Wallace Skelton
    Tags: Fiction, Passover, Same-sex relationships, Diverse Jewish families, Transgender 

 

BOOKS FOR YOUNG ADULTS 

  • The New Queer Conscience by Adam Eli
    Tags: Jewish values, Queer activism, Intersectionality, Identities 
  • The Year My Life Went Down the Toilet by Jake Maia Arlow
    Tags: Fiction, Middle school, Lesbian, Chronic illness, Community 
  • Benji Zeb is a Ravenous Werewolf  by Deke Moulton 
    Tags: Middle grade fantasy, Antisemitism, Racism, Diverse Jewish identities, Homosexuality 
  • Ring of Solomon by Aden Polydoros 
    Tags: Middle grade fantasy, Gay, Mixed religion family, Jewish mythology, Bullying 
  • Ellen Outside the Lines by A.J. Sass
    Tags: Fiction, Nonbinary, Autism, Middle school, Friendship 
  • Just Shy of Ordinary by A.J. Sass
    Tags: Middle grade fiction, Nonbinary, Mental illness, Family, COVID 19 Pandemic 
  • You Asked for Perfect by Laura Silverman 
    Tags: Fiction, Bisexuality, Mental health, High school romance, American Jewish family 

 

BOOKS FOR ADULTS 

 

  • ★ A Queer Capital: A History of Gay Life in Washington D.C. by Genny Beemyn
    Tags: Local history, Non-fiction, Same-sex relationships 
  • ★ Eye to Eye: Portraits of Lesbians by Joan E Biren
    Tags: Nonfiction, Lesbian, Photography, Personal stories 
  • Queer Theory and the Jewish Question Edited by Daniel Boyarin, Daniel Itzkovitz, and Anne Pellegrini
    Tags: Essays, Intersectionality, LGBTQ+, Jewish Identities 
  • Mentsh: On Being Jewish and Queer Edited by Angela Brown
    Tags: Essays, Identity, Personal stories, Judaism 
  • The Deviant’s War by Eric Cervini 
    Tags: History, LGBTQ institutions, Historical figures, Government, Gay activism 
  • Torah Queeries: Weekly Commentaries on the Hebrew Bible Edited by Gregg Drinkwater, Joshua Lesser, and David Shneer
    Tags: The Torah, Compilation, Judaism, Allyship, LGBTQ+ 
  • Balancing on the Mechitza: Transgender in the Jewish Community Edited by Noach Dzmura
    Tags: Autobiographical essays, Transgender, Jewish community, Judaism 
  • Mishkan Ga’avah: Where Pride Swells Editedby Denise Eger
    Tags: Compilation, Creative writing, Spirituality, Judaism, Diversity 
  • Drag King Dreams by Leslie Feinberg
    Tags: Fiction, Transgender, Mid-life crisis, Trauma, Activism, Hope, Community, Identity, Substance abuse 
  • Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg
    Tags: Fiction, Marginalized communities, Trauma, Gender affirming care, queer relationships 
  • Willa & Hesper by Amy Feltman
    Tags: Fiction, Lesbian, Romance, Judaism, Forced Migration, #MeToo Movement 
  • Then Comes Marriage: United States v. Windsor and the Defeat of DOMA by Roberta Kaplan
    Tags: Marriage equality, Law, Government 
  • Through the Door of Life: A Jewish Journey Between Genders by Joy Ladin
    Tags: Autobiography, Orthodox Judaism, Transgender, Transition, Faith 
  • The Rabbi who Prayed with Fire by Rachel Sharona Lewis
    Tags: Lesbian, Detective Drama, Synagogue community, Fiction 
  • The City Beautiful by Aden Polydoros
    Tags: Gay, Gothic thriller, Historical Fiction 
  • Found Tribe by Laurence Schimel
    Tags: Essays, Gay men, Judaism, Coming out 
  • Queer Jews Edited by David Shneer and Caryn Aviv
    Tags: Identity, Jewish communities, Essays, Memoir 
  • A Rainbow Thread: An Anthology of Queer Jewish Texts From the First Century to 1969 by Noam Sienna
    Tags: Compilation, History, Creative writing, Intersectional identities 
  • Becoming Eve: My Journey from Ultra-orthodox Rabbi to Transgender Woman by Abby Stein
    Tags: Ultra-Orthodox Judaism, Transition, Coming out, Transgender, Faith 
  • Trans Talmud: Androgynes and Eunuchs in Rabbinic Literature by Max K. Strassfeld
    Tags: Transgender, Nonbinary, Judaism 
  • Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story by Jacob Tobia
    Tags: Nonbinary, Transgender, Autobiographical memoir, Coming of age 
  • The Right Thing to Do at the Time by Dov Zeller
    Tags: Fiction, Transgender, Romance 

 

BOOKS FOR PARENTS 

  • In Jewish Texas: A Family Memoir by Stanley E. Ely
    Tags: Autobiographical memoir, Coming of age, Coming out, Family, Migration 
  • Oddly Normal: One Family’s Struggle to Help Their Teenage Son Come to Terms with His Sexuality by John Schwartz
    Tags: Jewish community, Parenting, Homophobia, Bullying, Suicide